Valentine’s Day isn’t just about candy and cards—it’s also a great opportunity to spark a love for reading and writing in your middle schooler! As kids grow older, they might roll their eyes at the idea of Valentine’s crafts, but that doesn’t mean they can’t engage in meaningful and fun literacy-based activities. Here are some creative ways to blend literacy and love this Valentine’s season.
1. Write Heartfelt Letters
Encourage your child to write letters or notes to family members, friends, or even themselves! Writing personal messages helps strengthen writing skills while also reinforcing the power of gratitude and self-reflection. If your child enjoys a challenge, have them write an acrostic poem using the letters in “VALENTINE” or another meaningful word.
2. Read Love Stories (Beyond Romance)
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to mean mushy love stories! Find books that explore themes of friendship, kindness, and self-love. Stories like Wonder by R.J. Palacio or The Crossover by Kwame Alexander offer powerful messages about relationships and resilience. Reading together—even just discussing a book your child is reading helps build critical thinking skills and strengthens parent-child connections.
3. Create a “Why I Love Reading” Wall
Have your middle schooler write reasons they love (or even just like) reading on paper hearts and stick them on a wall or poster. This visual reminder encourages a positive mindset about books and literacy. If they’re not excited about reading, start with prompts like “My favorite book is…” or “A book that made me think is…”
4. Craft Personalized Poetry
Poetry is a fantastic way to blend creativity and literacy! Encourage your child to write a haiku, free verse, or even a rap about love, friendship, or something they’re passionate about. If they enjoy music, have them turn their poem into song lyrics for an extra layer of engagement.
5. Host a Family “Book Crush” Night
Instead of a traditional Valentine’s dinner, create a cozy reading night where everyone shares a book they’ve “fallen for.” Each family member can bring a book they love (or currently enjoy) and explain why it’s special to them. Bonus points for making Valentine-themed snacks to go with the books!
6. Explore Love Letters in History
Middle schoolers love a little drama, so introduce them to famous love letters from history. Letters from authors, activists, and historical figures can show them the power of words and emotion. After reading a few, challenge them to write a letter to someone they admire—real or fictional!
7. Share the Love with a Book Swap
Encourage your child and their friends to do a book exchange instead of (or in addition to) Valentine’s candy. Each person can bring a book they enjoyed and swap with a friend, helping to expand their reading list and expose them to new genres.
Final Thoughts
Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to remind your middle schooler that literacy is all about connection—whether it’s through books, poetry, letters, or shared stories. By making reading and writing part of the celebration, you’re giving them a gift that lasts far beyond February 14th.
Try one (or more!) of these activities and let us know how it goes! What are your favorite ways to bring literacy into your family’s Valentine’s traditions?
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