Helping Your Child Make Meaningful Reading Connections
- Tamara Braxton
- Mar 14
- 4 min read

One of the most effective ways to improve reading comprehension is by teaching children to make connections while they read. When students relate what they read to their own experiences, other texts, the world around them, and different forms of media, they engage with the material in a deeper and more meaningful way.
This strategy, known as Making Connections, is a fundamental skill that can transform the way children interact with books and other texts.
What Are Reading Connections?
Making connections is a strategy that helps readers better understand and remember what they read by relating new information to their existing knowledge. This skill enhances comprehension, engagement, and critical thinking. There are four main types of reading connections:
Text-to-Self: Connecting the text to personal experiences.
Text-to-Text: Relating the text to another book, poem, or story.
Text-to-World: Connecting the text to historical events, news, or global issues.
Text-to-Media: Relating the text to movies, TV shows, music, or social media.
By encouraging children to make these connections, we help them move beyond passive reading and toward active engagement with texts.
Why Are Reading Connections Important?
When children make connections while reading, they:
Improve comprehension: By linking new ideas to what they already know, students understand texts more deeply.
Increase engagement: Reading becomes more interesting and relatable when they see connections between stories and their own lives.
Strengthen critical thinking: Making comparisons, identifying patterns, and drawing conclusions all contribute to higher-order thinking skills.
Develop empathy: Understanding different perspectives and experiences through literature fosters emotional intelligence and awareness.
How to Teach Your Child to Make Connections
1. Start with Text-to-Self Connections
The easiest way to introduce reading connections is through Text-to-Self connections. When children relate a story to their own experiences, they engage with the material in a more personal way.
How to Encourage It:
After reading a story, ask: Have you ever felt like this character? When?
Prompt with sentence starters: This reminds me of a time when… or I can relate to this because…
Share your own connections: This story reminds me of when I was in school and…
For example, if your child is reading Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson, you might ask, Have you ever had a time when you felt like an outsider, like Jacqueline does when she moves to a new place?
2. Introduce Text-to-Text Connections
Once your child is comfortable making Text-to-Self connections, guide them toward comparing one text to another.
How to Encourage It:
Ask: Does this story remind you of another book or movie? How are they similar or different?
Use sentence starters: This is similar to [another book] because… or Both books explore…
Compare themes, characters, or conflicts between books.
For example, after reading Brown Girl Dreaming, a child might say, Jacqueline’s love for words reminds me of the character in The Poet X by Elizabeth Acevedo because both girls use writing to express themselves.
3. Expand to Text-to-World Connections
A great way to deepen comprehension is by helping children see how literature connects to real-world events or social issues.
How to Encourage It:
Ask: Does this story remind you of something happening in the world?
Discuss historical or current events related to the book.
Encourage research on real-life connections to the story’s themes.
For example, after reading about the Civil Rights Movement in Brown Girl Dreaming, a child might say, This reminds me of the Black Lives Matter movement because both involve fighting for racial justice.
4. Use Text-to-Media Connections
In today’s digital world, children consume stories in many forms. Encourage them to connect literature to movies, TV shows, social media, or music.
How to Encourage It:
Ask: Have you seen a movie or heard a song that reminds you of this book?
Use sentence starters: This scene reminds me of a part in [movie/show] because…
Compare storytelling styles between books and media.
For example, after reading Brown Girl Dreaming, a student might say, This reminds me of the movie Hidden Figures because both show how African American women overcame obstacles.
How Parents Can Support Making Connections at Home
Parents play a crucial role in reinforcing this skill outside of the classroom. Here are some ways to help your child make meaningful connections:
1. Have Conversations About Books
Ask open-ended questions about what your child is reading. Encourage them to explain their connections in detail.
2. Model the Strategy Yourself
When reading a book, watching a movie, or listening to a song, share your own connections.
Example: This character reminds me of my best friend growing up because…
3. Use Graphic Organizers
A simple T-Chart with one column for the text and another for connections can help children organize their thoughts visually.
4. Make Reading a Multimedia Experience
Watch movies based on books, listen to music related to themes in literature, or explore historical events that connect to a story.
5. Encourage Writing About Connections
Ask your child to keep a reading journal where they write about their connections. They can use prompts like:
This book reminds me of…
This story made me think of…
I can relate to this character because…
Final Thoughts
Helping children make meaningful reading connections is a simple but powerful way to improve comprehension, engagement, and critical thinking. By encouraging them to relate texts to their own lives, other books, the world, and media, we give them the tools to become thoughtful, lifelong readers.
Try using these strategies the next time your child is reading, and watch how their understanding and appreciation for stories grow!
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